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I published the article "If the older children, adolescents and teenagers are required to wear diapers to bed?" The backbone of health too, and a reader named "customer", said an older child or adolescent may feel they are punished by their parents, requiring them to wear diapers to bed. My reply to the article "The decisions of parents about bedwetting and diapers." I know what I said is very controversial and goes against the thinking of most people (amateur or professional) on this topic. The point of my original article was to get people to see this problem in a completely new light.



I can certainly see "customer" point of view, however, said several things in his answer, just to prove my point. One of them was "The children are struggling to" see two feet beyond their nose "to understand the consequences of their decisions." They also tend to have a vision somewhat 'distorted priorities "and when the parents come to is that, because they are larger, often have a more realistic view of the situation."



The Big Picture of me (and I think the majority) see it is that they are capable of managing enuresis in a way that makes young people at ease and helps to maintain hygiene. If a young man not to wear protective clothing and sets for the whole night in the urine or door leaves soaked in a product that leaks like this is helping with hygiene or making them feel 'comfortable?



I think we need a couple to wear a certain type of bed sheet to strike most people as a punishment due mainly to the fact that the layers of evoking the image of a child. Because of negative levels of image, people associate that requires an older child, adolescent, or teenager to wear to bed, as something so humiliating and punitive. People are very focused on the flag symbol, national anthems, art, medals, and clothing are some of the symbols that give meaning and value. For many people a diaper is a symbol too much a symbol of being a child. But we must remember that the meaning and value that is given to a symbol, is not intrinsic, we're the ones that give meaning and value. There is nothing inherently stupid on levels are only an absorbent material folded and placed between his legs and then tied around the waist of an individual to manage incontinence. This would help greatly if the dictionary defines a layer in this way, instead of being a garment worn by children. Not recognizing that people with incontinence and bedwetting is also reinforces the layers upon layers of implicit assumptions of people who in turn perpetuates the image of baby diapers "to be. If I was asked to write the entry for levels in the dictionary, I'd say it this way: "An absorbent garment folded and placed between the legs of an individual then fixed around the dimensions designed to protect people with nocturnal enuresis, incontinence, and as a basic dress for the children before be potty trained. "



In my opinion, is an attitude of parents. If the parents are the child, adolescent or teenager in diapers humiliate, punish, or degrade when they are wrong. However, if the parents are using layers as a tool for dealing with bedwetting then it is acceptable, in my opinion.



Another thing the user says, is that my comparison between a cast and was wearing a coat is "comparing apples and oranges." He said: "A child does not necessarily sick or have a detrimental consequences for not wearing a protective order to wet the bed until hygiene is maintained," but "was not protection for bedwetting can have a negative effect on health . Exposure to frequent urine can cause skin lesions, ulcers and infections.



I read that the normal urine pH is between 6.0 and 6.5, the pH of the urine of people with incontinence is between 8.0 and 9.0, which means that it is more alkaline. This can irritate the skin. To quote one article: "Prolonged exposure to urine is known to irritate the skin chemically alter its function." Although the use of certain types of layers can also cause skin problems, these problems can be minimized or eliminated by using the appropriate skin care products such as lotions, powders, creams and ointments in addition to cleaning oneself thoroughly after changing diapers. without wearing layers that we merely expose more areas of the skin effects.



I'll remember the next point, I do not think that parents should be understood in terms of having young people wear layers. That is why I suggested the implementation of the reward system to encourage them to try the diapers and plastic pants. It 'important to use this system for at least 6 months, some young people may need a year. And 'my belief that the older child, teenager or adolescent will be motivated to lead because of a punishment. Using a reward system to encourage them to wear diapers to bed are associated with something nice to wear diapers, get a reward. After a suitable period of time you probably feel comfortable waking up in a dry bed will no longer need the premiums will be more and diapers and plastic pants to bed alone.



One of the most important facing a mental or physical illness is the feeling of having a certain level of control over it. Having had the feeling of control improves a person's self-esteem. This is a recurring theme in discussions and debates on the use of diapers to manage bedwetting in older children, adolescents and teenagers. I touch on this question often in my articles and I thought that hit more in this.



The prevailing opinion among people more or less medical professionals, is that the older children, adolescents and young people should enjoy autonomy in their decisions on what type of protection to wear the bed. The reasoning behind this is that, by requiring them to wear diapers to bed is making itself felt baby. Independence is very important as children grow, but in this context, the main problem is that if the child, adolescent, or adolescent chooses a product that does not offer sufficient protection or chooses not judgmental of protection to all parents should what the most appropriate protective wear for teenagers Trump must read for independence? I personally think that it should, but everyone is different.



As noted in my article "How parents can encourage older children, adolescents and teens to wear diapers to bed," I think it's important for parents of older children to explain why you chose a particular style of hand to the management of bedwetting. This includes the benefits of the product in question has over other products and how these benefits will help them better manage their bedwetting. In this way young people feel more comfortable and safe. And parents should listen to the child, if they have doubts about the use of a certain kind of level and let them know to understand their feelings. At this point parents should talk with children of different strategies that children can use to help them wear diapers at night and the reward system in particular, have put in place to help them adapt to protection. It would be helpful if parents get the information from the child's reward system. In discussing the merits of a particular product and how it will help the child feel more comfortable and confident young people could listen to the concerns and putting their thoughts on the reward system makes the child feel that the decision is not arbitrary and that you are not trying to belittle or humiliate. Finally, we show that it respects the sentiments of the child in question, making it more likely that will not resist to put on clothes before going to bed. Many parents fear the possibility of this fight night and the earlier proposals will be helpful in this respect.



As far as teenagers are concerned, may be difficult to convince them of the merits of wearing diapers to bed. The majority of adolescents are very sensitive to the concept of independence and many of them are very resistant to the demand of parents in general and anti-wear protection to bed, in particular. The need to increase significantly during these auto-years. The book "Reclaiming Youth at Risk Our Hope for the Future by Larry K. Brendtro, Martin Brokenleg and Steve Van Bockern stated the following regarding this:" The desire to acquire greater independence accelerated rapidly during early adolescence. A survey asked students to evaluate the importance of 24 statements of value, one of which was "to make my decisions." This value has increased more among the classes of the fifth and ninth, like any other. "



In this spirit, a different approach is warranted with adolescents. In some cases, parents give money to kids good grades. For example, you could give the teen a certain amount for each B and gained a certain amount each received. A similar system could be introduced to encourage young people to wear diapers to bed. The reflection in this sense, as well as various strategies, a young person can use to cope with wear diapers to bed I have described in my article "The ways to encourage older children, adolescents and teens to wear diapers beds and argument others.



I recently redesigned my previous position on the requirement for boys to wear diapers to bed for wetting the bed. I feel even older children should be required to wear diapers to bed, if efforts to treat enuresis have not been successful and clothing, such as pull-up and "GoodNites are ineffective to protect both the young and bedding, but for the case of adolescents, it might be prudent from a psychological point of view, to give them more leeway in this area. That said, I do not feel the concerns of adolescents, with the image to avoid many of them to objectively assess the merits of certain types of protective clothing.



When talking to your teen on her bed wetting means and can handle, it is important to put yourself in their shoes. Firstly it is an embarrassment to speak, and secondly, that difficulties are compounded by the possibility that they may feel they are treated like a child asking them to wear diapers to bed. With a teenager, it is important that they feel in control. This means involving them in decision making. If parents believe that a certain type or brand of bed would be better to manage enuresis because of their particular situation and embankments teenager, you might say something along these lines: "So your mother and I are in search of different types and brands of products available to manage the bedwetting, and we believe that because of your level of incontinence, it would be better for you to wear pin-on diaper pants plastic object (or any other type of layer with parents to find better ways manage the problem) They offer excellent protection in exchange, you will feel more comfortable and safe. We have developed a reward system to encourage people to try for a while '. Please be aware that we care your interests and we are not doing this to punish and humiliate you. We hope you do not think they treat you like a child. Keep in mind that there are many cases in which adults convince other adults to dress in layers, as in the case of married couples this is enuresis. There are also cases of children to buy diapers for parents with incontinence due to medical problems. For example, conditions such as Alzheimer's, Parkinson's disease and other diseases can cause incontinence and children can buy diapers for their parents to manage incontinence. We would like to at least try for a while '. Who knows, you might feel really comfortable to wear and does not consider going to bed without them. Eventually , we get to see it's not bad to wear them. In the long term, you will realize the merits of wearing them to bed. As I said we have developed a system of prizes to encourage you to try for 6 months to a year. If after that term do not want to wear that you can wear other clothing. "I want to stress is better for teenagers to wear their clothes more effective in dealing with their bed-wetting your clothes with the best image.



In terms of self-esteem one of the questions I have not seen addressed is: a lot of self-esteem is to have a sense of control over his situation. To have this control, we must make decisions on the best course of action to take given our particular situation, and all because the circumstances are different people making different choices. The way we make decisions, considering all available options and choose the best one of all others. In some cases, this may not be pleasant, but over time it learns to adapt. Adults do this all the time and the ability to do that must be instilled in young people early in life.



As this layer is connected with enuresis and could manage, is as follows: not wearing the most effective protection (or not to wear protection at all), the young man is indeed demonstrate that these forces act in a responsible manner, which me is childish. I would say that, to some extent, it is childish, not to wear diapers to bed. I also say that part of being mature is to choose the best way to manage a problem that, in certain situations not necessarily pleasant. Most adults are reluctant to wear diapers, but they realize that it is in their interest to do so and even though it may take considerable time and effort to make this adjustment in the end most are able to get used to wearing them. Many times in life you must choose the lesser of two evils. In case of enuresis the lesser of two evils, wearing a coat, as opposed to waking up soaking wet pajamas and bedding.





The qualities of responsibility and to choose the best course of action, the circumstances are certain characteristics of being an adult. Furthermore, it makes a person feel in control of the situation, thus expanding the individual self-esteem.



How relaxed throughout the night with wet clothes and bedding or wearing a diaper that leaks have control of the situation? Instead, by lying all night with wet clothes, remember the people who are not in control. In considering the issue, the important thing which is the negative psychological effect to impose on a person younger to wear diapers to bed, but that does not seem to consider is that the feeling of not being in control problem can have psychological effects negatives can last longer. As mentioned in previous articles have different levels of incontinence. Also, incontinence may effects of different ways, some people sleep on their side and have problems with losses by some people more than any other night, humidity, etc. Due to these differences people claim that certain types trademarks and diapers if not could produce such a variety of products. Bring the most effective type of diapers to bed if pin-on diapers and plastic pants, tape or other disposable products make the user feel more in control of the situation and help the person feel more confident. This will improve the bed-Wetter self-esteem.



I wanted to clarify where I stood on this issue. I heard that some people might think I'm cynical because of my position on this issue. Nothing could be further from the truth. I welcome your comments on this or any of my other objects. It 'nice to have a constructive dialogue in this area .. Many people have preconceived ideas on this subject and I hope that my writings might make some people rethink some of their preconceived ideas based on this theme. As a society we have overcome many of our prejudices and aged, in which many issues are involved. For example, there is less stigma surrounding mental illness and other diseases. We hope that over time there will be less of a stigma surrounding levels manage bedwetting with older children, adolescents, adolescents and adults.