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I've heard parents say that it's okay if an older child, teenager or adolescent not wear diapers
bed assisted in wet clothes and bedding, but I think it sends the wrong message. I think it sends the message that it is normal to be unhealthy. As mentioned previously is not safe and unhealthy (not to mention uncomfortable) to lie all night in wet sheets and clothing. The following analogy may help. If a young person has a cup that would put a bandage that prevent blood from entering their clothes and other things at home, even for health reasons. Bring a jacket to bed should not be considered otherwise the level is a band aid for a problem of bladder control. Or if the young man who goes out in the rain, the parents are wearing a raincoat or an umbrella used to keep the child from getting wet. All are closed and all serve to keep the individual from getting wet.



The bottom line is that people do not bathe and take appropriate precautions to prevent this from happening. Putting aside the concerns of insecurity and unease at the moment, even if the child or young person offered to wash linens and clothing should be indicated to them that is much longer and much more work to wash a lot of wet leaves, blankets and pajamas to wash diapers, plastic pants and wet.



In this moment I will speak later. Many parents may wonder if you should require their older children, adolescents or young to wear diapers to bed, if all methods to treat enuresis have failed and fled through the pull-ups or GoodNites. The consensus seems be that the child or adolescent must be involved in choosing what kind of clothes to wear to bed. Even if I agree with this theory, in principle, in practice it might work all the time. The reasoning behind this theory is that leaving the child or young person be involved in decision making they feel more in control of the situation by improving their self-esteem, which in turn will make them feel less embarrassed.



Many children, adolescents and teenagers feel silly about this disorder and that many people think that forcing them to wear diapers to bed to make the decision on how to treat bed wetting your hands and make them feel even more like a child. I can certainly understand this point of view, but in many cases the parents to make decisions for their older child or adolescent who are in their best interest, but I do not. With glasses and braces are only two things that come to mind. If it were for young people who would not wear glasses and braces at all. This is a stretch to apply the same reasoning for the use of diapers to manage this disorder? Also, I think it would be less embarrassing and stressful for the child or teenager to wear diapers to bed wearing glasses or braces, after all, since the layers are worn only at night, their friends do not notice them while wearing glasses or brace them.



If it is good to empower children and adolescents to have greater autonomy as age, so they are adults, more safely and responsibly, there is certain knowledge that comes with experience. Choose a product is suitable incontinence of them there are a lot of trial and error involved in choosing a product that works well incontinence. Many factors are involved in the selection of incontinence products for the type and level of incontinence, if your incontinence during the day, night, or both, as the product is absorbed and how efficiently protects the individual, as the product is sustainable, the financial statements of a person, as the products are discrete, like some products, the skin effect of an individual, but a person time and / or desire to wash the diapers and plastic pants, etc. While Adults have the ability to influence decisions and are able to make a choice in the matter, many children and adolescents are not mature, knowledge, experience, and ability to make informed choices in this situation. Their decision of what type of incontinence products to wear to bed are influenced by what they perceive to be the image layers rather than as the product can be kept dry during the night.



Parents are in a better position to judge what kind of product will best manage their child's bed-wetting. They know how the guy gets wet at night and have experience in dealing with the layers when the youngest was a baby, if you know how effective and absorption layers are different. This puts them in a better position to evaluate the effectiveness of a particular product works is to protect the young and the bed. If a child or young person under the bed wetting current product does not provide adequate protection and if after weighing all the options parents came to the conclusion that the pin on diapers and plastic pants, tape, disposable, or other clothing will be best to keep the child dry at night, while parents should have the final word on this topic.



The same goes for any health problem. If the youth is being treated for a disease and the method currently in use is not to resolve or manage the problem adequately, it is time to consider alternative courses of action and, finally, the adult, because their experience of life is better qualified to make that decision. A layer must be treated differently from any other medical device for the management of various medical problems such as an inhaler for asthma, a wheelchair with paralysis, hearing aids, a vote for a broken arm, etc.



Another thing that worries me is that children wear diapers when they were children to protect from moisture because this change as you get older? Parents are in effect says: "Well you still get wet but you're too old to protect themselves." While parents should have the final word on the matter, I do not think they should be cruel or insensitive to this. Also there are cases where parents have used the levels to try to shame the child or young person to stop wetting the bed or as a form of punishment. I find this practice reprehensible and a form of abuse.



To return to the approach to the older child or teenager to wear diapers to bed, I think that parents should be soft but firm. Some parents are from "My way or the highway" school of parenting, and while the approach may be necessary with some young and in some situations and circumstances, I think it is justified in this case. Parents must put in place the young, should be empathetic and help them understand that it is in the best interest of young people to wear diapers to bed. As I told you need to emphasize to them that people of all ages bedwetting and many of them use diapers at night, he would not have done as many different formats. Again, let me say that since there are so many styles of napkin-on-tape, pin-ons, pull, so that must mean that there are advantages to some of them with some people and under certain circumstances. I want to emphasize that although the door to the levels may be unpleasant, the alternative, the alarm for the cold, soaking wet sheets is much worse.



I would tell them the reasoning behind why you chose a type of layer upon another. You can discuss with them the different types of beds available for managing enuresis and the advantages and disadvantages of each. For example, some people have problems with leaks later, because they move a lot during the night, some people urinate more abundantly than the other night, etc. and some brands and types of layers are more effective than others to deal with these problems. Also, some styles of coats are more resistant than others.



Finally, parents can choose a particular brand or style diapers for financial reasons. For example, I read about a parent who had an older child with a bedwetting problem and it was very wet heavy. Originally used pull-ups to protect the child, but due to the degree of incontinence was to use three or more per night. The parent who had limited financial resources and could not afford to spend money for the amount of pull-up is needed for fuel and plastic pants pinned layers. These are just some of the reasons for choosing a type and brand to another level. By almost any consumer purchase, there are brands and products are more effective than others for various problems and situations more appropriate to the needs of consumers, etc. and the layers are no exception.



I think it is important to discuss why you chose a particular style of bed level to manage the young swimmer for the following reasons: it shows that it is beautiful because you take feelings into account young people to wear diapers, shows that this is not an arbitrary decision to downplay or degrade the child or adolescent, and it shows in the best interests of the young in heart. As a book of adolescent psychology, said: "As young people grow towards independence, the rate of adult leaves of control in those areas in which the adolescent can make reasonable decisions and continues to guide the youth in areas where knowledge of an adolescent is more limited. "In my opinion, the choice of a product suitable for managing enuresis would fall into the latter category. Adults have more life experience. This experience of life makes them more effective at controlling their emotions and not let them take the path of taking important decisions particularly as regards health care.



Bedwetting is a very difficult problem with most children, adolescents, and young and therefore are unlikely to be as objective parents to select the most effective way to manage their bedwetting. Image due to concerns of young people with their self-selecting this type of product to wear in bed is dictated by this policy on how the product protects the night.



As I mentioned earlier is a good thing for parents to talk with them all the different products on hand to handle bedwetting and the advantages and disadvantages of each in this way if there is disagreement on this type of product to be in bed with Parents can go further because they need the child or young person to wear one product over another. For example, it might be the case that the child or teen wants to wear a certain type of product (ie putting up cloth diapers), while parents believe that the pin cloth diapers and plastic pants would be the best option. If so, parents may say something along these lines: "I know that you prefer to wear pull up nappies instead of NIP on diapers, but there are several advantages to the core layers. You move a lot at night is a wet very heavy. So you tend to sleep on his side. The pin-on diapers are more effective to address those particular problems because they are thicker than the pull-on diapers and you're able to customize the material for the pin-on diapers, while with sweater-coat from putting more material in the layer is due to the band in action. It may take some time to get used to the pin on diapers, but eventually you'll be much happier because they will protect you much better than putting up levels which in turn will will be more comfortable. Your mother and I came with a reward system to encourage you to try for some time. We think you'll be happy with this idea and we would like to discuss now. "Once again, in so doing, it makes the child or Young feels better the situation, rather than the parents saying "you wear pin-on diapers and plastic pants to bed, because we say so!



If your child or teen is reluctant to wear a certain type of product absolutely sleep with parents should listen and then work with them to try to overcome their anxiety. This requires patience, warmth and encouragement. I should also say something along these lines: "So you're getting older and you can feel as you take the final decision on this issue we treat you like a baby or small child but we have great experience in these matters and the products that we have chosen for you to wear to bed offer the best protection. What makes you feel more at ease during the night, then other products that you wore. "To return to my analogy earlier about plaster casts, braces or glasses, is a bit ' awkward and uncomfortable at first, but eventually a person gets used to them and the person realizes that they are for our good. The same goes for her to wear diapers and plastic pants for bedwetting problem



In discussing the reasons for your decision about which type of diaper to wear for bed-wetting is to help a very significant way, you say that you recognize their concerns about the levels of wear and makes it more likely that they do not feel treated like a child because it is respect themselves enough to discuss why you have to wear a certain type of diaper during the night. My impression is that this discussion with the child or young person, in conjunction with using the reward system described above will feel less apprehensive about the idea of wearing diapers to bed.



I should also mention that there are situations where parents buy diapers for their parents on issues such as incontinence of a parent suffers from Alzheimer's disease and there are cases of married couples who do business with bed wetting and the spouse Bed Wetter suggests that the wear diapers to bed. In the case of bed-wetting spouse, then that may interfere with some initial idea of wearing diapers at night, bedwetting is aware that only the person sharing the bed with them and then becomes used to them. Mentioning in this scenario for the child or young person, which helps them realize that they are not alone and help them feel less embarrassed by their parents put them in diapers at night. They say: "If parents buy diapers for their parents and the husband or the wife of a wet bed suggest that wearing diapers to bed and I think it is not so bad that my parents are m 'encouraged to wear diapers to bed too .



The last thing I want to talk about with regard to older children, adolescents, or a teenager who may have difficulty accepting diapers bedwetting is as follows. Parents should let him know or is not uncommon to hear this. Many incontinent adults have trouble accepting the layers, but over time have come to accept this situation. As mentioned earlier, this would be a good idea for the child or young person to talk with others in similar situations.



In conjunction with the above techniques to help young people accept the layers may be needed for youth and speak to a mental health professional (if financially possible) to help them wear diapers to bed. It 'my opinion that the use of all these approaches together, the reward system, discussing the reasoning behind the choice of a particular type of diapers, positive self-talk, encouragement from parents when the child grows difficulties and / or discouraged about diapers, talk with a mental health professional, citing the fact that the adults for adults, others wear diapers to bed, they will be able to internalize the positive psychological strategies. This will help them cope with the thought of wearing diapers, this will help dispel the negative image of themselves that may have of themselves due to wear diapers to bed, and feel more confident about themselves, because they will protect themselves more effectively which will help improve their self-esteem.



I realize what I just said goes against the prevailing view espoused by most pediatricians, child psychologists and other professionals, but I think it is time to reassess our current behavior in the management of nocturnal enuresis and to examine the issue in a new light.



How do you face wearing diapers to deal with the enuresis is a very personal issue. Some people have no problem to wear diapers to bed and I am very happy to wear for safety reasons and the comfort they offer, while others need a significant amount of cajoling and encouragement to use them. Parents should not be discouraged if this is the case. It could take several months or more (as individuals) for young people feel completely at ease wearing diapers at night.



Although it might be time for young people to get used to wearing diapers to bed, over time the child or young person will realize how much more comfortable and confident that he or she will feel it. At this stage, will have no problem putting the layers during bedtime. Will be for them a second nature. Like brushing your teeth may wear diapers for just another part of their night routine.



A reader of this article said that this is not a good idea to force an older child or teenager to wear diapers to bed for wetting the bed. I spoke of his reasons and my response to these reasons in the article "The decisions of parents about bedwetting and diapers." Invite parents who may have difficulty with this decision and read the article "Methods to encourage the older children, adolescents and teens to wear diapers beds and other issues." These two articles should help you and your child or adolescent to adjust the idea of using layers at night to manage the bedwetting.